A common theme of people who email me for help with their career is that their jobs are terrible, their bosses are unreasonable, and their pay is too low.. The problem is, you can only change your own actions. While people will react differently if you behave differently, you have to make the changes to begin with.
So, this morning, I stumbled across this quote from Albert Ellis:
“The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.”
Yes, you can blame your boss for your misery, but it will only make your life miserable. You have options. (And yes, you always have options.) For instance, you can
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