Comments on: Am I Too Fat to Get Hired? https://www.evilhrlady.org/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html Everything to make HR better Tue, 16 Jul 2013 14:55:36 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.1.3 By: im a fatty https://www.evilhrlady.org/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-58600 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 14:55:36 +0000 http://localhost/wordpress/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-58600 The last comment is a tad unfair. In my eyes, anyhow. I have always been “bigger”, but never really fat until I began taking a prescription drug. I have always been highly praised at work and pride myself in being a hard worker. I care about myself and the job I do. I understand appearance makes a difference, but we also know not everything is what it seems. Just because a person is big, it doesn’t mean they’ve spent the last 3 years holed up in their rooms scarfing down twinkies.

]]> By: Mr Lear https://www.evilhrlady.org/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5697 Wed, 24 Nov 2010 23:08:14 +0000 http://localhost/wordpress/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5697 This is really interesting. I have literally in the last two days blogged about the morality of what it is to be "fat" and also the interview process. Literally the only two things i have posted. Check them out.
I think the whole being large thing does affect one's ability to be hired. As does any other characteristic. People who don't value themselves will not also neccessarily value an emplyment position and may treat it with the same lack of respect no?
This is a really decent thread, i'd say more but then my blog wouldn't really serve a purpose.
http://chemical-itch.blogspot.com/

]]> By: KellyK https://www.evilhrlady.org/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5696 Thu, 05 Aug 2010 02:00:04 +0000 http://localhost/wordpress/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5696 Mike and Talyssa, thanks for being a voice of reason. When people say that all people in X group are Y, because of 2 or 3 examples, all that shows me is that they don't like people in X group.

]]> By: Talyssa https://www.evilhrlady.org/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5695 Tue, 03 Aug 2010 23:40:16 +0000 http://localhost/wordpress/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5695 yeah that "I hired a fat person and she turned out to be a drunk, I hired another fat person that I already knew was going to be a bad fit and she turned out just as bad as I expected. Hiring fat people is always a good idea" lady just horrified me. I mean all else aside, it was just the worst logic ever. "A was Bad Thing X, B was Bad Thing Y but they both shared a common characteristic so that must be the reason. Also all people who share that characteristic must be like that."

I also liked the "well I'm skinny and its great, everyone should be skinny!" person. Yeesh.

Given that you probably have several qualified candidates applying for any given position I can imagine that being severely overweight weighs pretty heavily against them (er, no pun intended). I'm sure its LESS of an issue when there aren't so many qualified people looking for jobs, but nowadays….

Although, 400 pounds is just a number – I have a friend that is 5'10" and 290 or so and thats pretty big, I can't imagine him weighing another 100 pounds. On the other hand its a little different if you're 6'5". For 5'5" And different people carry weight differently. Its a little hard to know how big 400 really is.

]]> By: RP https://www.evilhrlady.org/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5694 Tue, 03 Aug 2010 21:16:39 +0000 http://localhost/wordpress/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5694 I like the idea of bringing it up in the phone interview so that they have time to think on it rationally rather than making snap judgments when they realize you're overweight. It may even give them time to realize they have large people already working for them anyway.

I don't think the OP's weight is necessarily an ADA issue; he can do the splits after all. Unless all his interviews are for jobs involving air travel that part shouldn't be a problem.

]]> By: fposte https://www.evilhrlady.org/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5693 Tue, 03 Aug 2010 19:48:08 +0000 http://localhost/wordpress/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5693 Thanks, Mike; good to know I wasn't the only one shrieking at my screen :-).

]]> By: Evil HR Lady https://www.evilhrlady.org/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5692 Tue, 03 Aug 2010 16:06:21 +0000 http://localhost/wordpress/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5692 BNET should be getting better, but the registration process is, shall we say, less than ideal.

And the role model woman? Ummm, no comment.

]]> By: Harris Silverman - Business Coach https://www.evilhrlady.org/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5691 Tue, 03 Aug 2010 15:27:39 +0000 http://localhost/wordpress/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5691 Unfortunately, research has shown that physical appearance influences hiring decisions much more than it should.

]]> By: Mike https://www.evilhrlady.org/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5690 Tue, 03 Aug 2010 14:52:23 +0000 http://localhost/wordpress/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5690 @fposte:

I couldn't agree more. To paraphrase one of the comments for those just joining us:

"There was one time I took a chance and hired a big ol' fatty, and she was LAZY! I'm so glad I'm responsible for myself and not a lazy fatty like her!"

Then she brags about how many people look to her as a role model.

If we're going to sit here on the internet and stereotype fat people, why don't we ever mention the awesome stereotypes? Things like world class chefs and renowned opera singers?

]]> By: fposte https://www.evilhrlady.org/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5689 Tue, 03 Aug 2010 13:51:29 +0000 http://localhost/wordpress/2010/08/am-i-too-fat-to-get-hired.html#comment-5689 And bnet has gone from bad to worse–though I actually have an account there and am logged in as per the top of the page, it insists that it won't post until I login. bnet, you're sludge and I'm over you.

I think the current last commenter there is a good example of what the obese face in hiring–it's somebody laboring under unexamined confirmation bias who considers overweight to be a legitimate sign of moral and professional weakness. Outside of Michigan, there's not much you can do about such bias save for combatting it as professionally as possible and make your physical presentation otherwise crisp and impeccable at the interview. And when it comes to clothing, alterations are everybody's friend (none of us have off-the-rack bodies), but it's going to be particularly worthwhile if you're trying to combat a preconception that you'll be sloppy.

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