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		By: Mr Glib		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Mr Glib]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Oct 2021 04:28:07 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[After my &quot;hey, you&#039;d be a cute girlfriend&quot; line comes the &quot;my current gal&#039;s great but doesn&#039;t understand me like you&quot; shtick in the speed dating interviews.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After my &#8220;hey, you&#8217;d be a cute girlfriend&#8221; line comes the &#8220;my current gal&#8217;s great but doesn&#8217;t understand me like you&#8221; shtick in the speed dating interviews.</p>
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		By: Simone Temple		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Simone Temple]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Oct 2021 11:50:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The weakness question might have been useful 20-some years ago but every career coach and interviewing class has always said to turn the weakness into a strength. When I was involved in interviewing, particularly, of recent college graduates, I gained very little information by asking that question. Honestly, probing about their experience and hearing how they handled certain situations was more valuable than simply asking &quot;what&#039;s your greatest weakness?&quot;

As far as why did you leave your last job, that can also be tricky. Some companies will lay staff off rather than firing them (I suspect that happened to me once). Or companies will turn a firing into a layoff due to legal threats. Throw in some firms&#039; insistence on neutral references and finding out why someone really left a company can be a crapshoot.

To paraphrase Dr. House, &quot;candidates lie.&quot; (But so do employers!)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The weakness question might have been useful 20-some years ago but every career coach and interviewing class has always said to turn the weakness into a strength. When I was involved in interviewing, particularly, of recent college graduates, I gained very little information by asking that question. Honestly, probing about their experience and hearing how they handled certain situations was more valuable than simply asking &#8220;what&#8217;s your greatest weakness?&#8221;</p>
<p>As far as why did you leave your last job, that can also be tricky. Some companies will lay staff off rather than firing them (I suspect that happened to me once). Or companies will turn a firing into a layoff due to legal threats. Throw in some firms&#8217; insistence on neutral references and finding out why someone really left a company can be a crapshoot.</p>
<p>To paraphrase Dr. House, &#8220;candidates lie.&#8221; (But so do employers!)</p>
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		By: Tim C.		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Tim C.]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Oct 2021 11:02:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I was once candidly honest.  I was 18 and looking for summer work prior to going away to college.  I interviewed at a fast food restaurant.  I was asked why did you apply for a job here? I answered &quot;I needed money before I go away to school.  I can take direction and work hard to earn it, but really I just need money.&quot;  I was not called back.
Someone later coached me I should not answer this way, but I could not lie.  These are entry level jobs paying minimum wage.   I later found work and they did not care why I wanted to work there, just that I could work hard.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was once candidly honest.  I was 18 and looking for summer work prior to going away to college.  I interviewed at a fast food restaurant.  I was asked why did you apply for a job here? I answered &#8220;I needed money before I go away to school.  I can take direction and work hard to earn it, but really I just need money.&#8221;  I was not called back.<br />
Someone later coached me I should not answer this way, but I could not lie.  These are entry level jobs paying minimum wage.   I later found work and they did not care why I wanted to work there, just that I could work hard.</p>
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		By: Just my 4 cents		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Just my 4 cents]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Oct 2021 13:13:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Of course you&#039;re not likely to find major red flags here from most people on these questions, but it&#039;s quite surprising how many people will actually tell on themselves, and when they do, it&#039;s worth it. 

With these types of questions, what we&#039;re looking for is 1. self-awareness and in the case of a problem, 2. an attempt to show that you are correcting for it.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Of course you&#8217;re not likely to find major red flags here from most people on these questions, but it&#8217;s quite surprising how many people will actually tell on themselves, and when they do, it&#8217;s worth it. </p>
<p>With these types of questions, what we&#8217;re looking for is 1. self-awareness and in the case of a problem, 2. an attempt to show that you are correcting for it.</p>
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		By: grannybunny		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[grannybunny]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Oct 2021 12:21:23 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m an old lady, and have been working -- on and off, mainly on -- for 60 years.  However, in all that time, I&#039;ve had only maybe a dozen actual job interviews, because I&#039;ve always tried to identify my dream job, do everything in my power to land it, then stay in that job -- or organization -- for years.  Therefore, I was, genuinely surprised the first -- and only -- time I was asked in an interview what my greatest weakness was.  After a slight pause -- while I gathered my thoughts -- I, candidly, replied that I am a workaholic and a perfectionist, although I have learned to discipline my perfectionist tendencies.  It wasn&#039;t a lie, and I guess it was an acceptable response, since it led to my current, successful, career in Government.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m an old lady, and have been working &#8212; on and off, mainly on &#8212; for 60 years.  However, in all that time, I&#8217;ve had only maybe a dozen actual job interviews, because I&#8217;ve always tried to identify my dream job, do everything in my power to land it, then stay in that job &#8212; or organization &#8212; for years.  Therefore, I was, genuinely surprised the first &#8212; and only &#8212; time I was asked in an interview what my greatest weakness was.  After a slight pause &#8212; while I gathered my thoughts &#8212; I, candidly, replied that I am a workaholic and a perfectionist, although I have learned to discipline my perfectionist tendencies.  It wasn&#8217;t a lie, and I guess it was an acceptable response, since it led to my current, successful, career in Government.</p>
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