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First, while he wasn't fired, keeps his professor title and remains gainfully enployed, he did lose his position as director, is no longer teaching, has no interaction with students and no access to campus or faculty buildings. He is allowed to continue using Leiden and his title as professor for research papers and the like.
There has been a lot of controversy over Leidens handling of all this and Ottow herself confirms that there were signs and that this should have caught and dealt with much sooner. However, the controversy is around the fact that they did not fire him as a professor or publicly name him.
Ruetir quotes the Executive Board President Annetje Ottow as saying, "“However serious the allegations are, you have to observe the rules of labor law and privacy law.”
https://www.ruetir.com/2022/10/25/leiden-professor-went-wrong-several-years/
Second, The Max Planck institute says that they, "have ended their association" with him, including removing his bio from their website. I was unsure what kind of position this was but they do have a position called Associate Professor. Furthermore, Mare Online quotes complainants as having fear that because he was not originally named that "he may continue his misconduct at other institutes where he holds a position" They were speaking specifically about the Max Planck Institute. So it sounds to me that he was let go from a paid position with them.
https://www.mareonline.nl/en/news/removed-astronomy-professor-is-tim-de-zeeuw/
Lastly, it doesnt seem like he'd keep his professorship very long seeing as they barred him from interacting with students, teaching and the school itself but Idk. Guess we'll see.
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I am NOT OP. Original post by u/VioletThunderX in r/TwoXIndia
trigger warnings: lonely in a new country
mood spoilers: he respected her boundaries
Original post: (Oct 12, 2022)
Earlier in August, I met a guy in class who is from my home town back in India. He DMed me asking to collaborate on a class project since we have overlapping research interests. So after a month or so we became friends. Everything was fine but recently he has become so needy- he calls me for any inconvenience he faces and often I am busy so I don’t pick up. He gives it 45 mins and calls me again. And the pattern repeats.
He has not made any other “moves” or comments to hit on me or anything, he knows I’m in a relationship and is super polite. But oh man, he doesn’t understand phone etiquette. Usually I thought we should wait for the person to call us back if we already called them and they didn’t pick up. Or like send a follow up text asking when is a good time to call.
But this guy just calls without any notice, and it isn’t even urgent. One time he called and wanted to discuss his bowel movement with me and I was like 💀💀💀 I think he is lonely and doesn’t have many friends, so that’s why I was nice to him and showed him the ropes of moving to a new country. Did not sign up to be on the receiving end of useless phone calls.
I want to have a talk with him about this, but am I being mean? I feel so bad telling him to tone it down a bit. I genuinely don’t mind helping but the other day he called me 6 times at like 11:30 pm. When I asked the next morning if he’s ok, he just said he wanted to sit on a zoom call and debug his code. That to me is something you don’t bother at 11:30 pm for.
Am I the mean person here?
Update: (Oct 19 2022)
So following everyone’s advice and what I was already kind of considering but needed to hear it from others, I realized I have to talk to him about boundaries.
Thankfully, it came up naturally when one time he asked me if we can discuss stuff for our project at around 11. I said no, I am not available after 9 pm since I put my phone on do not disturb and only respond to family and my SO. He was very receptive to that, he said sorry for the previous times and has not tried to call me after 9. He does text after but it’s not needy, more like “hey when you’re up, can we discuss about our project?”
So I’m glad it went smoothly. Although I think just beyond me, he is very lonely. I think he is wanting friends. And I think he’s not confident in his own skills/ work. Altho he’s respecting my time, I think he’s very reliant on me to sort of… confirm and validate his work. Which is kind of exhausting.
This makes me maintain more boundaries but I also get it. Moving to a new country is not easy. So as someone suggested on my previous post, I’m being firm but kind. He needs to learn self sufficiency ( he has never lived by himself), but I’m not his life guru or anything. I am helping him but not codling.
Just wanted to update you guys :)
**Reminder - I am not the original poster.**
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Original Oct. 7, 2022
My school is next to a trailer park with 250 tenants. Roughly 30% of the students at my school live there. Recently, it sold for $16.8 million.
I got a call this last week from a grandparent who got an eviction notice taped to her door. The company that bought the trailer park told all tenants to pay rent through an online portal, but the portal doesn’t work. This grandmother dropped off a check to pay rent, but the landlord didn’t cash it. Now she thinks she’s being evicted, and she’s worried her grandson she has custody of will have to change schools.
I looked at her lease and the notice and told her it wasn’t legal because it wasn’t served by a sheriff and she’s not on a month-to-month or rent-to-own lease. The deputy I called said it was a legal "Notice to Quit" instead— not an eviction. I traced the address of the notice to a company’s PO box in Delaware, 8 hours away.
Today, the special needs aides at work told me all of their students’ parents received the same notice on their door. The new landlord is trying to force renters out so he can bulldoze the trailer park and replace it with higher occupancy apartments.
It’s a beautiful time of year with red leaves on the mountains and the fields are full of pumpkins. The kids at my school are hopeful everyday and have no bitterness in their hearts. It is absolutely insane to me that we live on a planet that could be heaven, but the circumstances of human relations created by capitalism make it hell.
Update 1 Oct. 9, 2022
TLDR: the trailer park across from the elementary school where I work in VA was sold to an anonymous investor and they are evicting all the tenants— possibly 20% of the students at our small school.
This is some Pynchon-level chaos involving professional football players and the Panama Papers. I’ve tried to get the help from the media, but nobody has picked it up. Maybe you guys know how to piece together what’s happening?
The public announcement of the sale does not include the name of who bought the trailer park for $16.8 million. The tenants are supposed to make out checks to PO Box 249, Englewood, NJ. So that’s all we are working with.
This address is linked to several trailer parks in Virginia with sewage issues and many trailers parks all across the country (Indiana, Kansas, Louisiana, Florida). One park listed is Pinecrest MHP in CA, and a document says the legal address is the Corporation Trust Center in DE which is listed in the Panama Papers as using the Isle of Man as a tax haven. A company using the same PO Box, HOA II Finance One, LLC also links back to the same Corporation Trust Center.
The name listed as a manager for some of the parks using the same PO Box all over is "Byron Fields" with an email linked to a defunct website, ourhomesofamerica.com. There’s a LinkedIn profile for Byron Fields that says he works for Homes of America, but the profile picture is of Byron Fields, Jr, who played football for Duke and signed for the Giants.
Did a professional football player use a shell corporation to buy a trailer park and evict all the tenants? Can anyone find anything else?
Update 2 Oct. 14, 2022
Half the busses that take students to the elementary school where I work come from a trailer park down the road, which sold for $16 million in April.
The property itself is only assessed for a little over $2 million. It was never on the market. The buyer spent over $10 million for the land and another $6 million for the buildings, buying the park directly from the family who owned and managed it. The buyer was kept off public documents. The new owner raised the rents and now (6 months later) is evicting all the tenants.
After the sale, the tenants were told to pay rent to [the old name of the trailer park, + new 'LLC' added to the end] and a PO Box in Englewood, NJ. The PO Box is shared by a professional football player named Byron Fields, whose LinkedIn says he works forHomes of America. He was an intern for Alden during college. That guy is now the nominal 'manager' of a dozen trailer parks in the US bought by Homes for America. The PO Box gets forwarded to Corporation Trust Center, where American money disappears into offshore accounts to evade taxes.
Byron Fields didn’t buy this trailer park. On investigation, the buyer is Thomas Del Bosco, an executive of Alden Global, who bought the trailer park under a nonprofit called Homes for America. He’s also an executive of Smith Management LLC. Alden Global owns stakes in both my local paper and the bigger paper nearby me— who (surprise!) are not covering this story. Alden Global is mentioned in the Panama Papers because it’s sheltering all its money offshore.
Past investors in Alden have included the Knight Foundation (a nonprofit that, ironically, funds sustainable journalism projects), pension funds for employees of Coca-Cola, Citigroup and CalPERS (the California public employees’ retirement fund), as well as some nonprofit foundations and Swiss financial institutions… more than $236 million in pension funds for some Digital First Media employees are invested in Alden, although the company said this year it’s in the process of pulling them out.
How can hedge funds operate through nonprofits? They are buying papers, ruining them by cutting the staff in half, and creating nonprofits about sustainable journalism while investing the pensions of the employees of the papers they have bought into their own hedge fund.
If you have so much money, you can ruthlessly buy everything and create profit margins by casting out workers and tenants onto the streets. We need to jail hedge fund managers and slumlords, nationalize banking, and guarantee home ownership for Americans. It is frankly enraging how badly Americans are screwed over by finance capitalism.
I believe these students have a sense of community at our school, and eviction will traumatize them and further impoverish their parents. A 3rd grade kid named (something like) Tiny Tony told me his dad is now working everyday of the week to try and make enough to pay the hiked rent and stall off the eviction. He is so stinking cute, and he loves school. I don’t want him to be swept away.
major edit: the money is going through Homes of America LLC, not Homes FOR America (the nonprofit).
Update 3 Oct. 15, 2022
This update is an image of OP handing out flyers, telling residents who is responsible for this situation. What's important is the secrecy behind this Tom Del Bosco:
Alright so this isn't the first time I've heard the and seen the name "Tom Del Bosco", nor is it the first time I've looked into it, nor is it the first time that name had been used for public affairs, and yet, it never really leads me anywhere. I think the name Tom Del Bosco is mostly used as an alias or coverup name to help hide a person or people. Or it's all hardcore scrubbing. You can look up Tom Del Bosco and you'll find random people from random parts of the world. Look up Alden Global and you'll find it's a hedge fund, that's it, no real history, no clients, no employees... But you might find that they just so happen to be the owners of many several news outlets. I highly fucking doubt it's coincidence. Not the first time this has happened and it's not gonna be the last, I wouldn't even be surprised if local, state, or national news says literally nothing about this purchase and eviction of people. It's all super fucking shady, but what I do wonder now is. How did OP get this sheet of paper notifying them of who to contact and who to seek aid from? I personally don't think it was someone that they know. What I do know is that everyone in the area will leave, sooner or later, for some reason or another.
Basically, if you search up Tom Del Bosco or Alden Global, all of the search results have been bogged down, you can't even find a picture of this man's face. He might have paid people to scrub him from the net.
Update 4 Oct. 15, 2022
I typed a flier on my phone about the mass eviction happening at the trailer park where my students live. When I went to print it out at FedEx, the chick working there asked if she could share it on social media, and I said yes.
I parked at my school and walked along the highway past dead deer and haunted places. I reached the park and started talking to the families that were outside or who had their cars parked in the driveway. Every single person was kind and grateful I was doing something. I had been afraid park management would bounce me because it happened to me before but nobody has seen management in days.
Things I learned:
-An elderly man was being evicted over $12
-The mobile app they’re being required to use is tacking on crazy fees
-HUD (housing assistance) vouchers are being returned to sender, and the tenants who use assistance are now in thousands of dollars of rent debt
-a few days ago, the new manager left a hundred page packet on the tenants’ doorsteps, outlining all the new rules that could cause the residents to incur new fines. One particularly dark rule is that everyone can only have one pet now.
-A man invited me into his trailer where he lives with his young son. They showed me the floor in their bathroom had collapsed.
-The tenants were told if they didn’t pay these new fees by October 28th, they would have 3 days to move out before they would be evicted.
-Over half the tenants had been there less than a year, so there’s high turnover. Pretty much everyone said this was the only place available immediately that they could afford.
-The tenants pay between $400-$800 in rent.
-Some of the trailers are from the 1970s.
-All the notices that were eviction-related had simply been taped on peoples’ porches.
-I saw how the payment app they were now being made to use didn’t work and didn’t have any contact information about who was managing the park.
-Someone showed me that they were being charged fees with dates occurring before they moved in.
-One woman showed me how electricity didn’t work in half her trailer.
-Three men I talked to work grunt jobs at the weapons plant. One worked at Walmart. One was in construction. Only half the people I talked to were white. Three people mentioned disabilities.
In all, I was there for three hours and talked to a bunch of people. Surprisingly, I didn’t see any of my students. I walked back down the highway after dark. I had put my number on the flier but nobody has called me yet. I’m going to go back on a different day at a different time and try to talk to more people. I’m exhausted and I typed this from the bathtub.
This is an ongoing saga, OOP seems bent on not backing down from her activism. I thought this deserves to be spread around for awareness. Let's all signal boost the hell out of this
This email belongs to someone that can relay this story to John Oliver's show, we should let her know. Any more emails linked to the media will be helpful: yoonie.yang@warnermedia.com
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I've been a hockey fan my entire life. It recently dawned on me that hockey is the only major sport where players are punished for infractions by effectively being put in time out.
I've been digging through the historical archives to try to figure out when this form of punishment was created and why. The 1923 book How to Play Ice Hockey has this description of the penalty box:
It often happens that a player, excited by the heat of play, will commit fouls that he would never do if he was cool and considerate. Generally a short rest in the timer's box will serve to make him see the folly of his actions and how much he handicaps his team by being off the ice.
I checked to see if other sports from the turn of the 20th century used to have similar punishments. That doesn't seem to be the case. For example, Football (1896) describes punishments similar to current NFL rules.



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According to Wikipedia, Niketas Choniates was an historian who was in Constantinople at the time of the sack. He wrote:
The peasants and common riff-raff jeered at those of us from Byzantium and were thick-headed enough to call our miserable poverty and nakedness equality...Many were only too happy to accept this outrage, saying "Blessed be the Lord that we have grown rich", and buying up for next to nothing the property that their fellow-countrymen were forced to offer for sale, for they had not yet had much to do with the beef-eating Latins and they did not know that they served a wine as pure and unmixed as unadulterated bile, nor that they would treat the Byzantines with utter contempt.
The Wikipedia article's immediate source for the quotation is Michael Angold's 1997 book The Byzantine Empire 1025–1204.
I've heard previously that in premodern times it was common to dilute wine with water, so drinking it unmixed would be considered uncouth. But I'd never heard of anyone in Christendom--or non-Hindu really--take offense at the consumption of beef. What am I missing here?


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I’m not interested in wasting 30 minutes walking them through what they could read on my profile. I used to fall for this. A little wiser now.
If a recruiter reaches out to you unsolicited, make sure there is really a there there.
If a recruiter is truly interested in you and really has something (not just phishing), they will tell you the role details, company, and approved compensation range before they even talk to you on a call.
The real ones don’t want their time wasted any more than you like your time wasted. These types are just getting paid to add your contact details to their system. They use this to tell their clients how great their candidate database is and they also sell your contact details to 3rd parties.
Always be polite, but don’t let them disrespect your time and/or get your data for free.
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